It is hard to put into words the awesome experience I had with my sisters and the transplant community this weekend, but I will try my hardest. Last night I began to think about all of the amazing things I have been able to do in my life -- go to college, teach in a third world country, and join Phi Sigma Sigma, to name a few. This weekend has meant much more to me than anything else I have ever done.
Hearing stories of mothers whose children died, yet whose passing saved the lives of others through organ donations, was more heartwrenching than anything I have ever experienced. Further, some of these mothers asked to touch the organ recipients' chests just to feel their children's hearts beat one more time.... Each child gone is still living within someone who otherwise would not have survived, and that must give these mothers feelings of sadness -- but, perhaps, feelings of bliss, too.
The gift of life is what these people are celebrating. I heard one woman describe her transplant as being 'born again' or getting a second chance. Our lives and health are something that we tend to take for granted, and to see how these people take pride in what they have received is an unexplainable feeling.
After being in Louisville for this short period of time, I have learned the importance of taking care of myself, appreciating what I have, fulfilling my potential, and being proud of the 'organ donor' signature that is on the back of my driver's license.
I look forward to returning to the Games in two years, wherever they may be, with my Phi Sigma Sigma sisters. I can't wait to do some fundraising with Team Illinois for the upcoming Games!
I also would like to say thank you to many people:
-The Foundation Board. Without their support, none of us would have been able to attend the Games.
-The other chapters who were there. I had a wonderful time getting to know all of you.
-My travel partners Dory and Robyn. Robyn, sorry for falling asleep on the way back; I hope you enjoyed your hour of silence from Dory and me, and thank you for driving. Dory, sorry that the McDonald's crew in Indiana didn't know how to dip the ice cream in chocolate but instead drizzled hot fudge on top of the cone.
-The athletes (if they get the opportunity to read this) for allowing us to share their stories and participate.
-Most of all to Katie Herschede for being our contact person and photographer, and the most amazing organizer in the world.
Thank you to everyone. I look forward to seeing you soon! And remember to note on your driver's license that you want to be an organ donor -- it could mean saving a life!
LITP,
Veronica Tylka, Archon
Theta Chapter, University of Illinois